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Title
You Shouldn't Have to Say Goodbye
Author Patricia Hermes
Release Year 1982
Reviewed by Meridith Herman
Review Date 2008
Type of Book Fiction
Death of
Parent
Type of Death Illness
Target Age Teens



Summary

A thirteen year-old girl learns that her normally strong, happy and healthy mother has a rare cancer. Initially the girl believes that it will all be okay, but after her mother is in the hospital for a week she realizes it might not be okay. She sees her mother slowly deteriorate and become skinny and her skin yellow. Her father struggles with the idea of losing his wife and how much to tell his daughter. On Christmas Eve her mother passes away, but up until that point the daughter, father and mother are all living each day to the fullest and appreciating the time that they have together.



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